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Purpose....
I've been thinking about this alot and I was reminded of this today.
When at the lowest point and one feels 'what is the point?' or 'why bother?' if you slow down and really feel.... there can be found a deep yearning, just near the pit of the stomach close to deep sorrow (that I have only experienced once ,at my mum's funeral).
This yearning, for me, is a purpose; the very thing that keeps pushing me forward,when there is little reason to.....some people call this faith.... for me it is a purpose, when this is lost ,I wonder what follows......
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Over the last few months I have been working through a difficult time;the short,dark,cold days along with my physical deterioration have been a real challenge. Any walking is now really hard with my crutches,and after several bouts of illness over Christmas and New Year I was seriously at the point of giving up. However, I decided to live day by day (even hour by hour some days) and accept the difficulties - although I do not like my enforced minimal existence -it is all I have for now.
A new self motivated exercise regime designed to give as much strength and movement to my legs as possible, at last finding a physiotherapist to massage my legs now inplace and a person centred therapist also now available weekly to help me process some end of life decisions/thoughts and offer much lacking psychological support......all this combined is helping me to manage better. It seems my self care is becoming a full time project.